.Clique.

 I read some bloggers' blogs just now and this topic fascinates me a lot. It is about clique problems that happened in major places right now. It happened to not only to the adults, but also to teenagers and I know that school kids nowadays also facing these problems too. Everyone in this world, even he has lots’ of friends or don’t have any, also facing this problem.

But then, what is a clique? Okay, click http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Clique to know the definition. 

This is not healthy, ppl. Having a clique problem in our social life is not healthy. I’m saying this not because I’m a loner or didn’t have friends when actually I have it, I have a bunch of friends and have BFFs too but this is unfair for people who being judged just because they’re not sharing same interest with you, or came from same places or not having same races with you and your cliques, then you ignored them just because of it. Is it fair to discriminate them? I don’t think so. I do admit that I myself sometimes judged ppl but I didn’t discriminate them. At least I’m trying to befriend with them, I didn’t totally ignored them. But when the friendship we built is failed, what more can I say, at least we tried. I didn’t choose my friends, as long as he or she didn’t have any problems with me.

There was a story in my campus about this clique. This girl and her friends chose what kind of person that should join their group for their class assignments. I totally agreed with her when it comes to work or commitment, we should choose the right person to be in our group, the one that has skills and at least can give his or her full commitment with us to finish the assignments given together. But then these girls choose their group member were based on their appearance and looks. Is it fair? Then all people in that class already have their own group but not this unfortunate girl. This girl who is a lil bit fatty and has less beauty looks than the others in that class, plus she’s also not in a type-of-girl-that-on-fashion joined this clique. But then, they rejected her just because of her looks. Lol. It’s so annoying. Why do these kinds of people exist in our world? I don’t get it. It is like, do they really have the right to discriminate others. It wasn’t wrong to have a clique if you used it well and treats others equally too. I think all of us were old enough to understand this. So please, be nice to others even they’re not wearing same clothes with you, not having same races with you, not having same interest with you, or even not as rich as you. We are equal, remember?

Hugs and kisses from me,

-jiya-